Hate spreads

Published November 18, 2016

By Tom Campbell

by Tom Campbell, Executive Producer and Moderator, NC SPIN, November 17, 2016.

If you think our young people aren’t hearing and mirroring the hatred and divisiveness of our culture, think again.

Last weekend some 5,000 Methodist youth gathered in Fayetteville for their annual “Pilgrimage” retreat weekend. Required to do without their cellphones and tablets for the weekend, organizers understood how eager young people are to communicate and provided them clothespins, instructing them they could write messages and attach the pins on other attendees.

What was intended to be a fun and unplugged means of messaging turned nasty and hurtful. One unidentified young person wrote “I Love Trump” on one side of the clothespin and “Build a Wall” on the other, and then attached it to a Latino youth. This action and message spread across Crown Arena faster than a bullet. Many tears were shed as people expressed the pain of feeling like they didn’t belong, of being targets of racial prejudice and fearing for their safety.

This was a religious retreat, mind you, not a political event. Instead of demonstrating acceptance and tolerance for others, the message is that even among Christians racism, partisanship, hatred and discrimination are prevalent. That message went viral on social media; we’re told as many as a thousand packed up and didn’t return.

Where did these young people learn these things? To be sure young people are plugged in to Twitter, Facebook and other social media, but we strongly suspect they were mirroring what they had heard from parents and other adults, repeating and rapidly spreading these hate filled comments.

It would be easy to dismiss this as a singular, adolescent act, but it is not. Hope Morgan Ward, the Bishop of the North Carolina Conference of the United Methodist Church, responded, “We embrace with love our spiritual family in all our beautiful diversity – particularly our Hispanic brothers and sisters at this time – as well as others who are Asian, African American, Native American and Anglo.”

Racial hatred, discrimination and taunting is unacceptable and should be emphatically, immediately and forcefully condemned. Doing nothing in response to these behaviors makes one just as guilty as the person who commits the injustice. It turns people against each other and destroys our chances of working together to resolve other problems. It can and obviously does spread rapidly and will only be extinguished when we stand up and speak out against these attitudes and behaviors.

We have just concluded a political campaign like no other - ugly, divisive and filled with recriminations and discrimination. But we have thought and hoped we were a better culture than those seeking to separate us and fill us with fear and hate.

We have a spiritual problem in this nation. Not only is hate antithetical to the Christian and other religious faiths, it violates our bedrock principles. Abraham Lincoln presided over another tumultuous and divisive time and in his second Inaugural Address said, “With malice toward none, with charity for all, with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in, to bind up the nation's wounds, to care for him who shall have borne the battle and for his widow and his orphan, to do all which may achieve and cherish a just and lasting peace among ourselves and with all nations.” Amen.

November 18, 2016 at 10:05 am
Bruce Stanley says:

Building the wall in order to secure the Mexican border is not hate. It is following through on an immigration reform campaign promise from a fairly elected candidate. It is the will of the people. Hillary said she dreamed of an open border. We need to know who is coming into the country. It's a national security issue with terrorist attacks rising rapidly. I would also argue that the wall is a humanitarian policy for the citizens and their families being destroyed by the opioid smuggling which is rising rapidly.

November 18, 2016 at 6:32 pm
Diane Knight says:

Thank you for your call to stop the hate. My 6 year old grandson, who is an American and part Asian, had several children aggresively yell "TRUMP" in his face the day after the election.

My employee's brother, who is also a 6 year old American, was told he needed to go home and pack because he was moving to Mexico because Trump was building a wall.

These children got all this hate from hearing adults say these things. Thank you for calling for the hate to STOP.

November 18, 2016 at 6:41 pm
Marilyn Shenton says:

I was there and very sad and disappointed with that clothes pin. I have not heard anything about one youth that got a clothes pin with PIG on it. Others received pins with nasty sayings. My opinion is where there are nasty things said at a Christian gathering, we need to stop the clothes pins and start to talk to our youth about being loving and christian toward everyone. This is a good time to start that talk.

November 18, 2016 at 7:01 pm
Don Pierce says:

Trickle down manners and ethics in action...Just hold on for the rest of Mr. Toads Wild Ride.

November 19, 2016 at 6:41 am
Julee Snyder says:

Thank you, Tom! It breaks my heart to hear about that event and am appalled by the audacity of hate. I would add to your list our Persian Americans, some of whom are Muslim.

November 19, 2016 at 1:11 pm
Chuck Caulder says:

It's hard to take your commentary seriously when you got most of the facts wrong. I'm so tired of people who represent themselves to be professional journalists failing to get the basic facts of a story correct.

November 19, 2016 at 2:45 pm
NC SPIN says:

Chuck, we checked the facts thoroughly before printing this piece. If you have different facts, please present them.

December 17, 2016 at 2:12 am
Chuck Caulder says:

I apologize for the delayed reply, but frankly, I haven't been back to the site until now. However, since you asked, here you are:

"Required to do without their cellphones and tablets for the weekend" - Not true. Actually a special hashtag is promoted for the event during the entire weekend and posts are displayed on the main screen at various times.

"organizers understood how eager young people are to communicate and provided them clothespins, instructing them they could write messages and attach the pins on other attendees." - Not true. Organizers do not provide the clothes pins and they do not provide instructions for their use. This is a practice that the kids have been doing on their own for as long as I have been attending (over 10 years).

"This action and message spread across Crown Arena faster than a bullet." - Not true. The vast majority of attendees knew nothing about the incident until the main speaker addressed it from the stage as the focus of his message at the Saturday morning session.

"the message is that even among Christians racism, partisanship, hatred and discrimination are prevalent." - 5,000 people and one clothes pin = "prevalent"? Check your dictionary. What an inappropriate and misleading characterization of a very poor decision, apparently made by one young person at the event.

November 19, 2016 at 4:51 pm
Alex Castle says:

Funny how people like to "pin" the blame on Trump. Long before he ran for office my kids were subjected to discrimination on TV with the BLM movement. I am Latino, and whenever I were to comment that all lives matter I was labeled a racist. It is a travesty that the incident occurred, but I had been subjected to discrimination at the hands of conservative Caucasians and liberal African-Americans, atheist professors while in college who espoused the most intolerant ideologies, and Christians too. Our world is full of hate. The seeds of division were planted before Trump came into the picture. I think racial tension actually got worse under Obama's tenure. It comes from all sides. Stop pointing the finger, and let us teach true tolerance: respecting all races, all religious convictions, all political beliefs that may not agree with your own. Love trumps hate, but hatred has been espoused from all sides.

November 20, 2016 at 10:43 am
Erv Portman says:

Thanks for sharing this, words have consequence and leadership does impact us all. This column is something we can all agree on... I hope.